Kids LOVE helping adults with tasks. And they can really learn a lot during activities such as spring cleaning. But engaging kids in these, sometimes stressful, tasks can take some ingenuity.
KITS has tips for that!
Pick your battles and play the long game. Teaching your children to help you clean may take some practice. Some tasks might be messier in the beginning. With patience and encouragement for what does go well, it will be more likely that your child will learn valuable skills and be more helpful to you in the long run.
Let kids know ahead of time when the cleaning effort is going to happen. If you suddenly ask them to drop what they’re doing and help you clean, they’re going to be focused on what you’re taking them away from. When kids know what to expect ahead of time, it helps them prepare and transition into the activity more easily. You are also their model for behavior and attitude, they will follow your lead so if you are dreading cleaning and talk about how much you haaaaaate it, they will approach it this way too.
Focus on praising kids for their hard work and effort. This increases the feeling that they are being helpful and contributing, which also increases their motivation to keep going, and even be ready to do this again.
Make tasks more manageable (and more rewarding) by breaking them into pieces. Start small and section a larger task. Instead of telling your child to “clean your room”, ask them to “start with putting everything that’s laying on the floor on the bed, then put those things away”. Or focus on one type of thing at a time: starting with toys, then books, then clothes, etc. Or instead of the entire task of, “wash the car”, break the car down visually and wash the naturally segmented panels one at a time, then the trunk, then the hood, etc.
BONUS: To help you remember these tips, we have created this handy infographic that you can print and post on your refrigerator for any time you’d like to get some cleaning done and add in some school readiness!
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Text: © Kids In Transition to School 2019
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